It all happened a few weeks back,my mom had undergone operation,was recovering so my cousin n me had gone to hong kong market for some shopping,some stuffs that my mom wanted to spend time with,wool,knittg needle etc.It was a sunny sunday afternoon,we had just started shopping.My cousin was walking infront of me n i was just behind him.As i was looking thru all the fancy socks hanging,i could see a hand thru the corner of my eye n i could feel the hand brushing thru my chest.I dont know how to describe,was it my reflex or gut reaction,i just caught hold of the hand.

After a second the hand that i had got hold of got a face,from the looks of his face n style i could make out that he was an army man.I am very bad at fighting verbally n that affected me so much that day,wish i could scream like mad.The moment i started confronting him,i could see the dead like facial expression.To my utter surprise the next moment was 1000times more surprising than my wildest nightmares.To be precise it was more like outer body experience.I could see my right hand flying in the air n slapping his cheek.You wouldnt believe but the next thing was more unbelievable,he raised his hand too but i ducked and it barely touched my cheek.Everthing happened in a matrix time for me.By this time my cousin was beside me asking wht happened?As i was tellg him,the pervert’s frend starting talkg nonsense.Once they saw my cousin,they just left.My poor cousin just 19,so unaware of the worldly ways went so silent.I decided to return back,but all the way my cousin who is generally a “hala gari”was dumb.Later in the evening when i talked abt the matter,he said he felt guilty.He felt guilty as he felt he failed to protect me.

Afterwards when i started to think about the incident i started to recall what i had worn(black kurti n jeans,no make up)Then i got angry with myself thinking why am i trying to find mistakes with me when i have not done nothing wrong.He is to be punished not me.Next my thought was,did i do the right thing or was it wise to keep quite n suffer.Was he usual offender,was he used to considering women as a “thing”.Had a girl dared to do what i did the first time he did it,would he have the courage to do it again or after my incident will he hesitate even for a fraction of second before doing the same offence.

For men it must be just a joke or fun to eve tease,to molest or to rape but for women it is am emotional death each and every second of their life.Every second of your life that is haunted is a life worse than death.Shame on army people,they are suppose to protect the country but in reality they make a major portion of pervert who abuses women in India.

Dont provide us with reservation in parliament,we dont want that.We want a society which is safe for women.

Anyways it was one of my usual trips from the market,i along with two other ladies who happened to be together sat at the back seat of a van.The moment the cab started one of the lady started”Blah….blah…..blah…”.Though she was a total stranger to me,i came to know many things abt her,the foremost was that she was working as a teacher.The other thing is the friend of her seems to be a newly recruited teacher.Now comes the interesting part,the first lady started giving her some guru mantra.

First Lady:”Librarian lai keetab herchu bhanayra library ma janu.Bayelka bayelka ,jhola khali layaye ra janu.Aeta uta harey ko jasto garay ra keetab haru jhola ma hali halnu.Mailay ta testo garayra,dhayrai keetab thuparay ko cha.School ko library ko stamp lagay ko page chai chataira fakdeenay.Hehehehehe”.

English Translation:Go to the librarian,ask him/her that u want to see books,go in the evening time,take a bag which is almost empty.Do as if u r surfing thru the books n when no one is looking put few books inside ur bag.I have done that n believe me i have collected quite a lot of books that way.Just tear the page that has libray stamp n its all done.

Second Lady:Kati ramro idea,mo pani estai garchu.

By this time my stop had arrived and as i was getting out from the taxi my thought were,”Wah,If these kind of people were to teach the young minds,wht would happen to our future generation.Wht can we expect from the future,when our education system rely on these kind of people.

USING ONLY ONE WORD! Copy and change the answers to suit you and pass it on. It’s really hard to only use one word answers.

1. Where is your cell phone?
      Ah!yes,Can i give a miss call 4m ur cell.
2. Your significant other?
     Must be busy dating some other girls till he finds me.
3. Your hair?
      Long & Straight.
4. Your mother?
     Sweet.
5. Your father?
      Just like me,afterall  he is the gene doner.
6. Your favorite thing?
      Nothing captures my attention forever.
7. Your dream last night?
     Didnt see any.
8. Your favorite drink?
     Mango juice(Tropicana).
9. Your dream/goal?
     Keeps changing.
10. What room you are in?
       Staff Room,its where i get wi fi.
11. Your hobby?
      Movies, books,visiting exotic places(m working on it),Shopping
12. Your fear?
      Sitting for a viva exam.
13. Where do you want to be in 6 years?
       Visiting one of the exotic places.
14. Where were you last night?
       In my room,which is slowly turning into garbage yard.

15. Muffins?
       Only Bakers Cafe’s.
16. Wish list item?
       For that you have to read my page“Wish list 2008-09″
17. Where you grew up?
       Gangtok.
18. Last thing you did?
      Ping my frens.
19. What are you wearing?
       My traditional dress,”Bakhu,Hanju,Sweater”.

20. Your TV?
        Still sharing my Dad’s (Sony29″)

21. Your pets?
       Cocoa & Simba.
22. Friends?
        Very Few but very true.
23. Your life?
        Life has been grateful to me.
24. Your mood?
        Good.
25. Missing some one?
       Can’t think of anyone.
26. Car?
      Planning to get one pretty soon.
27. Something you’re not wearing?
       Diamonds(Wish to get one someday”)
28. Favorite store?
      Any store that captures my attention.

29. Your summer?
       When was that.Can’t remember wht i did last summer.

30. Your favorite color?
       VIBGYOR.
31. When is the last time you laughed?
       Just a while ago.
32. Last time you cried?
       Last night.Was watching “Daisy”(Korean Movie”)
33. Three people who email me?
       Astrology, Arnisha & Facebook.
34. Three of my favorite foods?
       Too Many.
35. Three places I would rather be right now?
        My Bed,School days,Bhutan.

Frankly speaking,I used to think that bloggers r people those who have loads of time n no other means to entertain themself. Ahem! But nw i take back my words,coz as i started writing,i realized that they r really creative people.To write abt some ordinary matter n make it Extraordinary!Well that is comendable.So “Hats Off”to all the bloggers.

Special Thanks to Rinchen Maam,who has given me an insight in a bloggers world n believe me m so impressed that i 2 m prespiring to be a blogger.:)